When we’re children, we tend to dream about what we want to be: ballerina, doctor, singer, artist, cop, etc. We spend our childhoods wishing we could be grown-ups and eventually become adults.
As we grow up, some of us may realize that our dreams are lost, and we may feel unsure about our future paths. It’s common for young adults to feel lost or struggle to “find” themselves. Just know that no one has all the answers, so you’re not alone in feeling this way.
Feeling lost may lead to heightened anxiety and confusion. Instead of excitement, thoughts of the future can induce panic. It’s natural to feel fear when contemplating the future, but it doesn’t have to be overwhelming.
College students often feel intense pressure to know exactly what they want to major in and what career path they want to follow. While stressing over who they want to be, they can lose sight of the entire purpose of their education: growth, exploration and self-discovery.
It’s important to remember that choosing a major or career doesn’t have to be a final, unchangeable decision. Many people change paths multiple times throughout their lives. The journey of self-discovery is ongoing, and each experience can contribute to a clearer understanding of what you want.
If you’re having a hard time figuring out what you want to do with your life, imagine what you would choose if there were no obstacles. If money, time, family, or any other limitations weren’t factors to consider. Many times, people limit themselves because of the restrictions in their lives. Sometimes, individuals underestimate themselves because they worry that they won’t be good enough for the career they want to pursue.
However, when doing so, people end up settling for a life they didn’t want because they thought it would be easier for them to achieve or to please others.
If you tend to let your limitations get in the way, please don’t settle. Pursue what makes you happy, even if it seems scary or out of reach. Do it for yourself. You owe it to yourself.
Planning your educational career path can be enhanced if you are a visual learner. A well-organized plan encourages brainstorming and requires research which can be very beneficial.
For some, a degree is a path to financial stability or career advancement, while for others, it’s a way to pursue their passions and find fulfillment.
Ultimately, whatever your reason for pursuing a college degree, remember that your happiness and well-being are the most important aspects to consider.
It’s okay to take your time to explore different interests and career options. Embrace the uncertainty as part of the journey, and trust that with patience and self-compassion, you’ll find your way.